Onyx ISVA Service provides support to male victims and survivors of sexual abuse.
We understand the importance of having a support system that respects individual preferences. That’s why we offer the option of having a male Independent Sexual Violence Advisor (ISVA) wherever possible.
Our team is dedicated to providing a safe and supportive environment where male survivors can feel heard, validated, and empowered to seek the help they deserve. If you or someone you know is a male survivor of sexual abuse, we’re here to support you every step of the way.
We are not part of the police, NHS or any other public service. We are a Registered Independent Charity that support survivors of sexual violence.
Contact us:
0300 002 0004
[email protected]
Refer yourself for supportMyth Busting For Male Victims And Survivors
View our Myth Busting Information Here
There are many myths which can especially affect male victims and survivors of sexual abuse and can be a barrier to accessing support.
At Onyx our ISVA team are aware of the impact these myths can have on victims and survivors. We actively challenge these myths through our media and campaign work.
Myth BustingSupport For Male Victims Of Rape / Sexual Violence
Rape Crisis: 24/7 Rape & Sexual Assault Helpline
24/7 Rape and Sexual Assault Helpline; support for anyone who has experienced rape or sexual violence – even if unsure whether something happened or not. www.247sexualabusesupport.org.uk or 0808 500 2222 (open 24/7, every day of the year).
If something sexual happened to you – with or without consent – talk to Rape & Sexual Assault helpline. No matter when it happened. – www.rapecrisis.org.uk
Live Chat Helpline – www.rapecrisis.org.uk/get-help/live-chat-helpline
Free and confidential support. Age 16+.
Safeline
Safeline is a specialist, tailored support for males effected by sexual abuse or rape. Works to prevent the sexual exploitation of children. Offers a range of support options for parents, partners, siblings and friends of survivors of abuse.
National Male Survivor Helpline:
0800 800 5005
Text Chat Service: National Male Survivor Text Support Line: for men and boys:
07860 065187
Survivors UK
Survivors UK offer confidential counselling, group work and helpline services to anyone effected by male sexual violation. They offer support to anyone who identifies as male, trans, non-binary or has identified as male in the past. Sexual violation includes both childhood sexual abuse and adult sexual assault/rape.
0203 598 3898
Text Chat Service: 020 3322 1860
(Monday to Sunday – 12 – 8pm)
Mind
Mind offers mental health support for anyone with mental health issues, including anyone experiencing or who has experienced sexual abuse – or any abuse. Mind can provide peer support, advice and services in your local area.
Info line: 0300 123 3393
(Monday to Friday – 9am – 6pm)
Support For LGBTQ+ Victims And Survivors
Galop
Galop offers support to LGBTQ+ communities who are victims of sexual violence, domestic abuse and hate crime, so-called conversion therapies, honour-based abuse, forced marriage and other forms of abuse. You can self-refer or ask a support worker to refer you.
LGBT+ Domestic Abuse Helpline:
0800 999 5428
LGBT+ Hate Crime Helpline:
0207 704 2040
LGBT+ Conversion Therapy Helpline:
0800 130 3335
Rape Crisis: 24/7 Rape & Sexual Assault Helpline
24/7 Rape and Sexual Assault Helpline; support for anyone who has experienced rape or sexual violence – even if unsure whether something happened or not. www.247sexualabusesupport.org.uk or 0808 500 2222 (open 24/7, every day of the year).
If something sexual happened to you – with or without consent – talk to Rape & Sexual Assault helpline. No matter when it happened. – www.rapecrisis.org.uk
Live Chat Helpline – www.rapecrisis.org.uk/get-help/live-chat-helpline
Free and confidential support. Age 16+.
Survivors UK
Survivors UK offer confidential counselling, group work and helpline services to anyone effected by male sexual violation. They offer support to anyone who identifies as male, trans, non-binary or has identified as male in the past. Sexual violation includes both childhood sexual abuse and adult sexual assault/rape.
0203 598 3898
Text Chat Service: 020 3322 1860
(Monday to Sunday – 12 – 8pm)
The Survivors Trust
The Survivors Trust is a free support line for those who have experienced rape, sexual assault or sexual abuse for survivors of all genders.
Call: 08088 010818
Text: 07860 022956
Mind
Mind offers mental health support for anyone with mental health issues, including anyone experiencing or who has experienced sexual abuse – or any abuse. Mind can provide peer support, advice and services in your local area.
Info line: 0300 123 3393
(Monday to Friday – 9am – 6pm)
Support For Victims Of Childhood Sexual Abuse
Survivors UK
Survivors UK offer confidential counselling, group work and helpline services to anyone effected by male sexual violation. They offer support to anyone who identifies as male, trans, non-binary or has identified as male in the past. Sexual violation includes both childhood sexual abuse and adult sexual assault/rape.
0203 598 3898
Text Chat Service: 020 3322 1860
(Monday to Sunday – 12 – 8pm)
HAVOCA (Help for Adult Victims of Child Abuse)
HAVOCA provide support, friendship and advice for adults affected by childhood abuse. They offer an online support forum.
www.havoca.org/every-survivor-has-the-right-to-become-a-thriver/contact-us
Forum for survivors:
NAPAC (National Association for People Abused in Childhood)
NAPAC provide support to adult survivors of any form of childhood abuse including physical, sexual, emotional abuse and neglect.
Support Line: 0808 801 0331
(10am-9pm – Monday to Thursdays and 10am-6pm – Fridays)
Mind
Mind offers mental health support for anyone with mental health issues, including anyone experiencing or who has experienced sexual abuse – or any abuse. Mind can provide peer support, advice and services in your local area.
Info line: 0300 123 3393
(Monday to Friday – 9am – 6pm)
If in Crisis…
Samaritans
Samaritans – call anytime (24 hours per day) for free, 1 to 1 support. If you are struggling to cope or need someone to listen without judgement or pressure. Call, email or download the self-help app to keep track of how you’re feeling and get advice on how to cope, feel better and stay safe in a crisis.
Text: 116 123
Email service: (within 24 hour):
Self-help App:
www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/self-help
Shout
Shout offers 24/7 text messaging service for anyone struggling to cope. If you are struggling to cope and need to talk Shout volunteers are available day or night. A free, confidential, anonymous text support service. Text from wherever you are in the UK.
Text ‘SHOUT’ to 85258
Email: [email protected]
Emergency services - Police / Ambulance
If at imminent risk call emergency services
Dial 999 if in imminent danger.
Emerald Centre
Emerald Centre – (Sarc – Sexual Assault Referral Centre For Bedfordshire And Luton) provide free support and practical support to anyone in Bedfordshire who has experienced sexual violence and/or sexual abuse. You can be seen for examination if you wish to – you do not have to report to the police to receive support from the SARC.
Call: 01234 842750
(9am to 5pm – Monday to Friday)
Out of hours:
0330 223 0099
Email: [email protected]
Support for Parents and Carers
MOSAC (Mothers of Sexually Abused Children)
MOSAC (Mothers of Sexually Abused Children) provide safe, non-judgmental support to non-abusive parents/carers whose children have been sexually abused.
Helpline: 0800 980 1958
(10am-2pm – Monday, Thursday and Friday and 10am-6pm – Tuesday and Wednesday)
Young Minds
Young Minds support for parents of children worried about a child or young person’s behaviour or mental health up to the age of 25.
www.youngminds.org.uk/find-help/for-parents
Call: 0808 802 5544
(9.30am to 4pm – Monday to Friday)
Other Support
CICA (Criminal Injuries Compensation Authority)
CICA (Criminal Injuries Compensation Authority) claim compensation if you have been physically or mentally injured because you have been a victim of violent crime in England, Wales or Scotland.
Call: 0300 003 3601
(10am to 3pm – Monday to Friday)
How to make a claim:
www.gov.uk/guidance/criminal-injuries-compensation-a-guide
National Stalking Helpline
National Stalking Helpline – operated by the Suzy Lamplugh Trust provide practical information, support and advice on risk, safety planning and legislation to victims, their friends and family.
Call: 0808 802 0300
(9.30am to 4pm – every weekday except Wednesdays when hours are 1pm to 4pm)
